Originally Posted By: Sad Girl

He texted me to see how she was, and I replied I didn't have time for him I was busy with our sobbing daughter. He replied...it's best for everyone, so I said...yes it is.



SG. If you don't have time. Don't event take the time to text back. Handle your life and when you get a chance and if you feel a need to reply, simply text back something like "She is doing better today." or whatever. He does not need immediate responses from you right now. In fact, it sounds like your daughter is old enough that if he needs to know how she is doing that he can just find out from her. Is there a reason you are an intermediary?


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1