Thanks for that reminder. That's one of the changes that I have gone trough. I've always been a great dad - always there for my kids. In the past they would frustrate me because they wouldn't do things the way I wanted. Now I am much better at letinf the little things go. I still set boundaries for them because they need them but I don't vet frustrated and angry. I am still getting better at this. I want to be the person I want the to grow up to be. I will be their rock - someone they can always turn to for support and someone they know alway loves them no matter what.
The love and logic books look pretty good. I am already doing a lot of what is in them. It never hurts to read too much though and I have a lot of time to read now.
Me: 43 W: 40 S10,S7 M12, T13+
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1