no advice? premonitions? scolding? I havent answered him yet but I want to. Just not sure what to say.
Im pretty sure Im over thinking this whole thing. I know I have seen it said several times not to read anything into anything WAS say or do. Im working on not doing that.
My friend here is a huge help on everything except this, she thinks I should file for a divorce. I dont WANT a divorce, I want to talk to my h and work things out. We dont have children and there is no way to see him since he is out of the country. I keep hoping he will mention coming stateside for xmas...but even if he did that doesnt mean he would see me. And what if he brings HER??
Ok so, back to the msg he sent...any thoughts on how I should handle this? This IS progress right?
