So....

What did you do to contribute to the demise of your marriage?

Answer honestly.

We all did something, whether it was being to critical, letting ourselves go, not givng our spouse enough attention, the list goes on.

I did NOT say that it is OK for him to be doing what he is doing, and there is probably nothing that you did to cause a MLC.

BUT....every single one of us refused to see any warning signs, until it was too late and the bomb dropped.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.