Well, I finally bit the bullet and decided to pay for the reverse lookup for the cell phone # that I had questioned earlier. Really not much info to go on other than it is registered to an Indian name, so I am assuming that it is some sort of doctor/counseler. It is Boston (cambridge to be exact).
I think that she needed some sort of grief counseler or some sort of coaching to help her through the process of dropping the bomb on me. According to my cell records, she called the # just before she dropped the bomb and then several more times during the next few days and then nothing since.
Me 44/W 32 S1 M8 Bomb 9/25/09 Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)