Thanks Hope. I slept on it and just see this as a temper tantrum from him. More control issues. Ugh.

I did reply this morning and probably will catch he!! from him for standing up for myself, but I've had enough. Hmm... similar to how you are feeling. I hope I get good results too. I just don't like him anymore. I'm shocked that D is now asking if it will be better if I find a replacement dad for her! That H is not the same person and she doesn't like spending time with him. She says he comes up short as a dad. frown I'm sad about this. Maybe she's just seeing his selfishness. I hope. I hope it's not what she thinks overall. The kids are angry at him.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10