She's not ready to accept a letter from Kevin. Even if he did give it to her it would have sat in her purse unread.

Someday Kevin, you will be able to give that to her. But for now you both have to move on. Grow as an individual. Have confidence in yourself. The less you think about her the easier that will be.

Gucci is right. You have so much help to give others on this site by sharing your past and current behaviors with them. You can really help people, men especially, to understand why their wifes have chosen the solution that they have. God bless you.