Detachment

[pitinmygut]

This is such a great thread. having read through a majority of this, I am trying to figure out what my "image" of detachment should look like.

My sitch is that I honestly didn't show my W the love and affection that I should have due to prior resentments. It was very hard for me to be "in love" with her, but I never really wanted out of the M. Unfortunately, she had enough over 8 years and became a WAW. She has now moved out of the house, an hour away, with our 1 year old son. The area she moved to is where most of her family lives (parent, sisters, aunts, uncles etc). It is her plan to stay there.

I really feel like the odds of my M working are NIL. What would my picture of detachment look like? I hope that someone could shine some light on this for me.