seems so much easier to leave when OP is there b/c God forbid they, the WAS, are EVER alone...

I read somewhere the "worst thing in the world is not being alone, it's wishing you were alone."

Anyhow, good luck to you on this tough issue of having a d doing a MLC. Yikes...but remember how you're sil must feel. Oh the poor guy. He needs some advice. Heck, send him here but don't reveal your name...
j-

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change