This whole process is so foreign to me and how I defined myself for so many years. Radical changes in how I relate to everything. I guess I am here cause what I was doing wasn't working for anyone. Time to try new things.

Does anyone have any suggestions for a counselor. One of the first things out of W mouth after da bomb was I will not do MC, so I am on my own in sorting this mess out. I want a pro M SBT type with a background in pastoral counseling. What else should I be asking about. I have heard several horror stories. I don't want to get into this to find out I wasted time and money on the wrong therapist.

Thanks

Chill