Help... I need to stop reacting!

[Lost Rabbit]

Hi Rocked just catching up with things and saying Hi, pull back is pretty common after getting some quality moments! My H isnt having an A but behaves in pretty much the same way, he comes up to see me we have a nice time then he pulls back, although atm he seems to have me in a right pickle on what to do, he wants contact and attention but doesnt want to make the effort to drive the two hours to see me, his choice to move so far away!