Not sure what to do

[bluerain]

What if you write things down, or set reminders in your cell phone? I use these little spiral note-books that are shirt pocket sized called rite-in-the-rain in my summer job. I like them because the paper is water-proof and really tough, so you can wash them and not lose all your important things! And I tend to leave all kinds of things in my pockets when I do laundry- discovering that about the rain-books was just a happy accident.

Its good that you are realizing these things. But I would caution you to not start doing all of these things to try to win her back.

One of the most important things to think about is, make sure that you are being strong. You have to be careful to not come off as a push-over here. Women like strong, confident men. Dont start ironing just the way she likes it, or pick up all of the housework to try to appease her, shell see right through it. Be consistent, and fair, if you start doing the laundry, keep it up, dont let yourself slip up and disappoint her.