Not sure what to do

[stu321]

I don't do as much around the house as I should, but it because when I do, I get critisized cause it's not the way she likes it.
She doesn't want me to hang the clothes out or iron, cause she doesn't like the way I do it. So I sort of stopped trying. It's become easier to leave things and not be critisized than trying and feeling like I failed and made things harder for her.
There are other things that I should be doing, that I havn't been, and I think it's because I've been so busy with trying to build the house and running my business.
I tend to be very forgetfull which causes her anxiety, but I don't know what I can do about that.