I agree with gardener, the best thing to do would be wait to see if he brings it up. But... If you really want him there, then ask if hes interested, if you dont want to come off as pursuing, then dont pursue. He can come over and spend time with DD while you are detached, and calm around him. You are likely going to have this type of occassion in the future if you do end up D'ing, so learning to deal with it now might not be a bad thing. Or it could be a chance to show off to him...
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
