Bottom line tho- there really is no other option. He'll never be satisfied with our marriage, if I stay I'll just get sucked back into the lifestyle, and the only thing I could have done different was leave sooner.
For what it's worth, I'm sorry you're going through this.
But I have no qualms about telling someone to leave an abusive marriage, and I'm glad that you are doing so.
You deserve someone who will love you, and only you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement