Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
Bottom line tho- there really is no other option. He'll never be satisfied with our marriage, if I stay I'll just get sucked back into the lifestyle, and the only thing I could have done different was leave sooner.


For what it's worth, I'm sorry you're going through this.

But I have no qualms about telling someone to leave an abusive marriage, and I'm glad that you are doing so.

You deserve someone who will love you, and only you.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."