But I'll tell you the miracle. My H last week was so irrational, he was screaming at me for picking up a used envelope from the floor and throwing it away.
But tonight he did not scream, and this accident around his electronics (he's a computer engineer) is way more critical. He asked to go to his apt. and get some space and talked to me about why liquids and electronics are dangerous (I'm smart about a lot of things, electronics is not one of them). He has remained calm and is taking care of his own emotions and to calm them down.
I can't believe the change. It's truly a miracle. I'm so relieved in a way - not that we are having problems, but that we are talking about them calmly and maturely. Who knows. We may have hope yet.
