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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
GO!!!!


Seriously!

I'm about ready to fly up there and drag her butt to the party myself.

Might do her H some good to see her having fun with someone else, too... wink


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
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Okay, Okay, okay. I get it! Geez.
I will go. If there is no R in the end I can't throw away my chances of having a social life. And if I give up these chances now, they are going to quit coming around in the future. So I'm going. Decision made. Not going to lie, there is a little fear in me that he will get upset because he assumes we will be spending the whole day together, but my goal from this second forward is not to worry about that. And go to the party for me. When I really think about it. He would do the same. thanks guys


M: 31
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Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





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Originally Posted By: britt54
Not going to lie, there is a little fear in me that he will get upset because he assumes we will be spending the whole day together, but my goal from this second forward is not to worry about that.


Don't worry, we'll be here throwing 2x4s at you until you get there. smile


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

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Originally Posted By: britt54
So I'm going. Decision made. Not going to lie, there is a little fear in me that he will get upset because he assumes we will be spending the whole day together, but my goal from this second forward is not to worry about that.



October 29, 2009.

The day you took your LIFE back.

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So mad. Drove two hours for DR and they were sold out! So i bought DB. Ugh. H text me tonight at five. I didnt respond right away. Called him back at eight. H told me the reason he text me was cause he wanted to come visit me and the boys. Yes he said ME and the boys. He them went on to tell me that because I didnt answer he drov up to the house only to find me not there. Obviously because I was two hour away searching for the most important book ever! But he doesnt have to know that. So he told me he stayed and watched tv until he had to go to work. Ha ha. Sat in our house not knowing where his family is. Wonder how that felt. Anyways, had a good conversation. He genuin sounds happy to talk to me. Its a good feeling. Well almost home. Home to read read read.


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Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





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Originally Posted By: britt54
So mad. Drove two hours for DR and they were sold out! So i bought DB. Ugh. H text me tonight at five. I didnt respond right away. Called him back at eight. H told me the reason he text me was cause he wanted to come visit me and the boys. Yes he said ME and the boys. He them went on to tell me that because I didnt answer he drov up to the house only to find me not there. Obviously because I was two hour away searching for the most important book ever! But he doesnt have to know that. So he told me he stayed and watched tv until he had to go to work. Ha ha. Sat in our house not knowing where his family is. Wonder how that felt. Anyways, had a good conversation. He genuin sounds happy to talk to me. Its a good feeling. Well almost home. Home to read read read.


You sound good.

Too bad about DR, you shoulda taken me up on my offer. smile DB isn't a bad place to start, though.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
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Ya, well good thing though. I'm gonna read DB and if I really think I want DR, turns out that my local bookstore here in the city is connected to the one I went to in the next city. Its all the same chain, just different name. So i can go to my store here and order DR free of shipping! So that's good!

I do feel quite upbeat today. I think mainly cause it feels good to get out and enjoy a nice day away from home. And also because I had such a good conversation with H. Here's to a night of reading!


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Originally Posted By: britt54
I do feel quite upbeat today. I think mainly cause it feels good to get out and enjoy a nice day away from home. And also because I had such a good conversation with H. Here's to a night of reading!


Remember, I want a book report. smile


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
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Remember you're giving me till monday morning...


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You go to the party.[quote]



DO you have to ask? Must be you are not to that part in the book.


GO TO THE PARTY!!!!!

If he asks if you can hang out say, Im'e sorry I already have other plans but, maybe another time.( then giggle to yourself when he isn't looking) wink


OH... and have a great time!!!!

Oh... And don't go into detail about what you are doing, create mystery (in the book)
JAK

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