I'm signing a lease on Saturday and opening my own accounts. I haven't told H yet, I'm gonna wait until closer to my move out date. I'm thinking hard about when that will be- D17 is having a party on 11/7, S18's b-day is 11/20 and Thanksgiving is 11/26.
It was a good conversation with the MC tonight, I'm tired so I'll post details tomorrow. Bottom line tho- there really is no other option. He'll never be satisfied with our marriage, if I stay I'll just get sucked back into the lifestyle, and the only thing I could have done different was leave sooner.