Good stuff, guys. Thanks for your posts. I'll respond tomorrow. I'm off to bed - spent too much time on FB chatting with the girls I was in NY with. : ) But it's good, I'm feeling happy!
Just a quick question cause I might need to bring it up tomorrow with my H. I'm not sure what to do about carving pumpkins and trick-or-treating. Do I invite him? The truth is...it doesn't really matter to me. He didn't come with us last year and I was devastated, but this year I'm fine if he doesn't join us. I have a friend coming over with her 2 little boys and I'll have fun without him.
But...for my DD's sake, I thought about possibly asking him to carve pumpkins with us on Fri. night and trick-or-treat on Sat. night. Will this come off as pursuing him? Cause if so, I don't want to do it. I want him there for the experience and the memory for our DD, not for me.
How can I include him without pursuing? Is it possible? Should I just wait to see if he brings it up? What are the rest of you doing?
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
