Actually I think you're deluding yourself to think that she's slowly coming back to you. Your W is still stuck in the fog of wanting to live life as a single woman.
Spend Halloween with your kids and that's it.
Yes I agree with everything all of you guys are writing. I was very delusional. I thought since I have been ignoring her and putting my boundary's up she was starting to come around. Guess again. She doesn't even know how to block her friends list on facebook and sure enough I see that faggot on her friends list. I had it I blocked her. I thought I broke up that relationship. I was wrong.
The thing was I didn't even want to buy my little girl diapers because it didn't make sense if she is so broke then why is she still going on this trip! Its not I don't want to provide for my kids. I do all the time they are with me 100%. I don't bug her for money to help with the kids. The only time I bug her is when they are ill and sick. Even then she doesn't come around. I will be there just for the kids but she is going to have to take them home. If it doesn't work for her then I will see them Sunday.
Sorry just venting. I'm going to have to start doing my work out routine now or I'm going to loose it.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09
