Man..I tell yeah what is wrong with these people..I guess seperation and divorce is the only way to possibly wake them up because they are so snowed its so rediculous...
So anyway I have been waiting to post something due to wife acting good for a few days but most of the time she is just shut down and cold to me...IDK what her problem is and now she acts short tempered with everything including the kids she does not say hi to them just tells them to do things when she has not seen them for 8 hours when she gets home from work..She is not eating any dinner that I cook IDK if she eats at all except at work...She has turned into a grouch around the house and always expecting things...this is totally uncharacteristic of her former self..she was so laid back and now she seems very tense all the time...It could possibly be because she is taking on more responsibility around the house and the fact that she is being forced transferred out of her location where her days off are changing and work hours...But the most important thing is that the OM she was working with is moving to another location too...Only those two were moved out of her area...Isn't that a b----? or Karma or I consider it from prayers...
She is such a sour puss and negative about everything and I am about to confront her about her behavior towards the children I will not put up with her talking to them in a negative fashion when they have not done anything...Today she did not wear her wedding rings to work and I think she hasn't been wearing them when I am at the station...Hey it is fine by me they are worth alot of money if she don't want to wear them I will keep them...But she still will not file she said she has not left because of the kids and finances but she is the one who is miserable...I have taken care of her for 10 years and she is miserable? She has taken advantage of me is the way I look at it and she is so ungrateful...She has put on her facebook about bloodwork she had done and she possibly has a thyroid problem now and I asked her tonight about it and she said she did not know anything about her bloodwork..I told her that she knew and that no matter what I still care about her...she never responded back with the Instant message after my comment to her...
We are suppose to go to her family's house in another state for Thanksgiving and the kids have mentioned that they want to go...that subject has not been brought up yet except earlier in the month she said we were broke and we could not go I told her there was a way if we budgeted for the next month there was a way but she did not say anything after that too...Nothing but negativity...IDk if I would want to go even though her parents are loving towards me I would feel uncomfortable...
I am going to wait until the beginning of December to initiate relationship talk with her and go from there...She will not initiate relationship talk with me she has always suppressed her feelings inside and this is something that has gone on since she was a kid so it is nothing that I can do she is the only one that can do something about it if she wants too..It is up to her and I have to leave it at that..
Also I signed up for Michelles and the Stronger families live with Jeff Kemp on the internet coming up Nov 4 and Nov 12.. Maybe there is something there that can help me I can only hope and stay positive about it.. Until next time
Last edited by Jman; 10/30/0904:16 AM.
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process
