Strange turn of events today, got a call around noon from W asking how the taxes were going, and saying she'd be coming through Dallas Friday or Saturday and could sign them then if that would work. I told her that would be fine, that I had weekend plans but we could work something out. She asked it Friday 2-4 would work, I told her I have lunch plans and evening plans, but we could meet at 3:00. She kept saying "well, don't cancel your plans."

After I got off, thought about how awkward the conversation went, and if she might want to stay longer. I called back and told her she's welcome to stay the night. She said "I think it's best if I head out". Whatever the hell that means.

I don't want to drop plans for her, but my Friday night plans could easily be moved to Saturday. In fact, I already called the guy and told him the sitch, and he completely understands. He's actually a bit jealous, because his W wants nothing to do with him, and their divorce recently went through.

So, here's my plan. I'm feeling confident and things have been going well lately. I'll be relaxed and see if she'll stay for dessert or a drink, then see what happens. No big deal, I have plans if she really wants to leave. Spent time on my house today just in case. I really don't care either way, which is a change for me and maybe she'll sense that. Should be fun.

Also, some time during the convo I'll mention that I'll be in Houston around Thanksgiving, but leave it at that. I'll leave it up to her to bring it up over the next month. My friend gave me this idea today, and I like it.

Anyone else have any thoughts?


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK