II would suggest you immediately stop paying for his cellphone and his internet access out of joint funds. In fact, I'd suggest that you begin to deposit your paycheck into a new account, that's only accessible by you, and ONLY transfer funds to your joint account in an amount necessary to cover the family's NEEDS, and NOT his affair or his wants.Let him know after you've done this; don't hide from it. Tell him "I have decided that I will no longer financially help enable your affair."
^^^Strongly agree w/pup, here!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
