Sorry to hear about everything, but you need to lower the payment to W before papers are filed because you do not want to pay the higher payment for forever. Also if you talk to her about everything being fair, she might get mad, but she is already upset and you need to do what is best for you.
Have a great weekend! I will pray that the girls get better so you can have a fun weekend.
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