Forgive AND forget?

[WCW]

H made it home from his trip, he even came in the bedroom to say hi. I was so wiped out I barely knew he was there. He came back the next morning and got into bed with me and we had a few minutes to catch up on a few things.

Before I left for work I asked why he stopped communication when I emailed about the financial crapola that was happening while he was gone. Naturally he didn't answer, but I kept rambling and asked him what his plan was. He said nothing different, work and pay the bills. ggrrrrrrrrr. I said that wasn't good enough, he needs to manage his bills and huge debt and figure out how to stop wasting money on extra fees. H was tuning me out, I sputtered that it doesn't matter what I say anyway....H was listening and he responded "it does matter what you say." hhmmmm

Odd that later the same day we were each sitting at the same intersection waiting for the lights to change. I didn't know if H saw me as he didn't wave. I didn't have my phone with me, but when I checked it later I had 3 missed calls. hhmmmm

I have a big event this weekend and was being pulled in too many directions. H asked how things were going and offered to help with a time consuming to free me up for some other things. hhmmmm

Oh yeah, remember that meeting last month where H was already seated and I walked in and sat somewhere else, and after the meeting a friend made comments to H about it? Last night was another meeting, H called me and asked if I would wait for him and we could drive together. And, he sat next to me. hhmmmm