Deep,

Your treatise on detachment is impressive!

I can relate to the LBS becoming the WAS. I oscillate b/w desperately trying to save my marriage and becoming a WAS myself. You arrive at a point where your self-preservation instincts begin to take over and they begin to scream "take care of yourself first..you are worth so much more than you can possibly realize." What keeps me from becoming a WAS is my love for my kids (S5 and D3).

Thanks,
LFH

ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009