You are still being a caring person towards her which is a great sign of your character. All you are saying now is that you dropped the rope and it is up to her to decide what she wants.

I hate to say it but isn't it a great feeling at some level?

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10