I paid off all her debt in August. And put a lot of money in the checking acct. On the promise of her saying "I don't want a divorce, you're a good guy, I just need my space, I want to be with you for 60 yrs to infiniti, we're going to laugh about all this one day. I hope we make it thru this, too."
What I'm just now finding out from my family is in July right after she asked me to leave she was wavering and what I found out from the bad cnslr was in August she said "part of her wanted a divorce and part of her didn't. I need time to sort things out." And in July she told me not to file or give up on her and be patient and help her relieve any debt, so I did.
