Now that's creative thinking , Being Me! Well, mission accomplished on the homefront. STBX and I were like a well oiled machine, the kid didn't stand a chance. I hit her with my stats and anecdotes and we did lots of "we love you" s and she actually admitted to doing the act. During tears, she apologized for lying to us and abusing our trust and promised that it would not happen again, she said she would not have sex with him again. We talked about how to make that happen and told her that they were no longer allowed to spend time together at either of our homes unsupervised. STBX said "we are going back a step until you earn our trust again" So it ended with alot of hugging, two parents hugging and loving their child. I said "you've experimented, you made a mistake and now it's time to move on and not repeat those mistakes" So Saturday night bf is coming over to STBX's to help D hand out candy, I will be the host as STBX will not be home. I told her that he is still welcome to come and that I would try hard not to beat the snot out of him. D looked at me eyes wide until I said "you realize I'm joking, right?" So that's that...for now. Thanks for your support folks. The plan went off without a hitch. It was a good night.
