Who said I was offended? I wasn't slighted. I thought you knew by my response.

Besides, you all are missing my point. I didn't mean he had to quote my exact words to her. I was saying those words to "him" in order to get my point across to him about his wife. Obviously I did a very poor job!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!