Dont you think I would like to be secure? Of course and I will bounce back but I always believed in good times and bad. So if things go bad its okay to jump off the boat?
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
what you doing for money now? you working full-time?
how did you act while you were on unenjoyment? (depressed, mopy, lazy? repaired & repainted the house, out there looking for work and got a new job immediately, trying to have sex every afternoon?)
the text messaging friend, he still in the picture?
Dont you think I would like to be secure? Of course and I will bounce back but I always believed in good times and bad. So if things go bad its okay to jump off the boat?
You know, if you're asking your wife questions like this, I can see why it'd be hard for her to want to come back.
You are right to be hurt and angry and confused. But you have to understand that she is hurting, too.
All of this badgering makes you look whiny and judgmental, which is death to trying to get a walkaway spouse to stay.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I havent had any discussions with her about these things. We havent spoken to each other in the last 10 days. Im angry about the situation but im not bagering her.
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
I have a full time job now but not making the money i was used to. I went into job hunt mode the minute I lost my job. The friend as far as I know is not in the picture but I cant say for sure because shes been gone for 4 weeks and changed her phone number 4 days after she left.
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
The first week she was gone we spoke twice and i did try to convince her to come back. Since ive read the books ive went into full last ditch effort mode. So far results arent looking to good. So i continue to work on me. Working out every day saving money so I can get my own place. Spending lots of quality time with my kids.
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
Hey how are things going today. Still no contact unless about the children. We our splitting the time with the kids. Its very hard im a hands on dad and im very involved. I miss them when there not with me.
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
My wife just dropped off the babies about ten minutes ago. i WENT out got the kids. She said heres the baby bag and left. Is that all the conversation we should be having? Im not sure what else I should be saying to her? any ideas?
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Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
