Well the WAW actually turned up on time to look after the kids.
And I actually had a great time at the Poker League.
When I returned we had a little talk about this and that, nothing heavy. I thanked her for looking after the kids. She replied 'well they are also my kids.'
She commented upon the full week of activities I had planned this week whilst the kids are off school. She noted that I had joined a single fathers group and a poker league in one week. She asked if I had anything planned for Halloween. I said I was going to do duck apple as we do every year and invite the Daughter & SIL over(With SIL's s9) to join in.
Surprise, surprise, my WAW asked if she could come over as she would like to do duck apple with them as well. First time she has invited herself to something I was doing with the kids.
She asked if I was doing anything on Bonfire night. I told her nothing is arranged as yet, b/c I am working the night shift that week. But I am going to an large organized Firework display near here on Saturday. I did not say it in a way to invite her, nor did I invite her directly.
Let us see what she does - nothing I expect.
As she was leaving she repeated that they are also her children and that she had not spent as much time with them as she COULD have. I replied with silence.
I have truly completed a few 180's this week and they have been noticed. I have also made a concentrated effort in getting out, and have joined 2 groups in 1 week.
Lets keep the ball rolling. Bloody Brilliant guv'r. Up the 'apple n pears M'lady' and all that.
Redards, Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
