Thanks for all the great posts. I think so many of us stuggle with the idea of detachment. Sometimes my "mothering instinct" gets in the way of this and I just care too much about how H is feeling (my emotions say "By detaching, my H will think I don't care").
For all who have successfully detached (I am still on the beginning of this detachment journey), how do you make sure to let your spouse know that you still care but still move on with your own life? Also, is detaching somethiing you try after you first exhaust the other DB techniques (it seems like it would be hard to implement those techniques with distance and doing your own thing)? Or am I just completely missing the mark on this whole detaching thing?
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
