Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

She called today, had to come to the house to pickup something. I made sure I wasn't there. I needed to go out of town, so I txt her about staying at the house with the pets. She replied that I didnt give her enough notice, she had plans. She called minutes later and was pissed. She said the same old thing, this is just like our marriage, everything has to be your way. She didnt even have plans where she couldn't stay at the house at night. Part of me feels guilty that she got mad and I did give her short notice but part of me feels like she is putting me through hell, she needs to understand I need the weekends to plan my life after DDay. I am trying to move on, make plans, and she still gets pissed. Then we got on the subject of the separation/divorce. Like the DR book says, I think my W has shut the door on your M. She insist that she feels nothing for me, is "broken". I said she is the one that is giving up and she says she gave me 11 years. If I told her I gave her 11 years, she would blow up. She also asked me why Im not over her yet...its been 2 mths since we split. WTF? She can be a cold, cold woman. I wish I could just snap my fingers and have no feeling for her anymore. I keep asking myself, who is this woman? I really feel like she is having mental issues. The part that cares about her feels bad, the part that is being hurt by her is mad.

I have to keep working on detachment. I dont want to see her for at least 30-45 days, I need to detach... keep thinking, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.