What should I do about my kids calling H? They call and they always cry and ask him to come back?
Good question. What do they know about the situation?
Perhaps their dad should come over and explain why he is leaving. You can make sure that he doesn't try to paint it as a "we" decision or foist the blame off on you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement