Donna...I came to check in (shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh)

I got over my ex, essentially, when I started to like me again.

Once I started liking me, I started realizing that what he did was not about how worthless or unworthy I was but rather based on his own jackas sedness.

And i realized that while I was not dumb in loving the person he had presented himself to be, I would a fool to love the person he was proving himself to be
and

not a fool in love kind of fool
but a driving the car
top speed
with the headlights off
on a cliff road
kinda fool

i may be naive
trusting
hopefully
blah blah blah

but out and out stoooooooooopid...I don't think so

and
it helped that his girlfriend was so white trash they shared teeth!!! :-)