Hi all-LRT advice?

[Arwen_in_NJ]

Sorry Jack- thought you misunderstood. I read a lot of your posts and never ONCE have thought you were stupid!

Here's an interesting update...

Since WAW said she was going to come over and visit with dog "sometime this week" I was not in hurry to answer her e-mail (plus I have had cold & felt like cr@p). So yesterday (day after e-mail) I get a text that she is on her way to the house.

OK no biggie. I texted back that I had received her e-mail, sorry I hadn't responded, but I had the plague as well and was not feeling well the last few days. There were two bags on the table that was stuff for her.

So I get home last night, and the first thing I see when I get in the door is that she moved two chairs and a lamp to fill in the space where she had moved out a piece of furniture!

I suppose I should set boundaries, be firm and read her the riot act- after all, she has moved out, and is living with someone else. She has her own space, and I have the house, even if she is still part owner. But truth be told, I found it just so funny that I wouldn't have been able to talk to her without laughing. She has a funny idea of what "moving out " means.... :-D