She told me she wants to talk tonight after kids are in bed. I am sure this is it. I will be taking control and holding my ground on the kids. I have an attorney ready to draw up papers tomorrow on legal separation and full custody. Won't be a hard sell to a judge, I am sole provider, I do most of the duties (cook, clean, baths, bedtime, etc). She's the one with the issues. This state requires grounds for leg. sep and divorce. The OM (who claims to be loaded but has warrants our for hot checks) supposedly will pay for her a place to stay. I will give her the option of stopping all contact wiht OM, immediately, or be gone by morning. Any other words of wisdom to keep the confidence up when she explodes?
Nope, sounds good. Stick to your guns and good luck.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
