Thanks all, even though I only posted a few minutes ago, I've already started feeling better with the comments I'm getting. I know giving her space is what I need to do. I wasn't planning on talking about our relationship on Saturday night, I just wanted to go out for nice night where we could share some laughs and just enjoy a good night out without any pressures.

I don't think she is planning on a gift, but I've got one for her. It's not a romatic gift or anything, just a small Angel statue to represent happiness and peace. I thought anything romatic would be adding pressure. I want to get a card, but how do I get a "Happy Anniversary" card when we're not living together?

Sounds like I need to get those books to read. They seemed to have helped alot of people.

Thanks again for the replies. I'm really surprised at the quick responses and the quality. Normally when you post things to forums, you don't get what your looking for, but it's definately not the case here.


Sydney, Australia
H: 34
W: 33
M: 11
s: 6
Asked for Divorce 12th Nov 2009