I think you should say to your husband "Some psycho left a rather obscene voice-mail message for me on my business line, which I really don't appreciate. I'm in the process of finding out who it is, but I thought you should be aware."
Watch his reaction very closely and remember every detail on his reaction. Watch his facial reactions. Watch his body language. Let us know how he responds.
Yes. Especially the part where he wets himself, that's very important.
