I know your looking for that one moment (heck we all are) where this all changes but as far as I can tell that moment is a myth. Your M didn't turn on one event so neither will your reconciliation. Living with this in mind helps a little with the roller coaster.
That is a great post C-bart! Thinker how are you doing?
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H:37 W:34 D11,S8,S6 Together 19 years M:10 Bomb:4/09