The letter is meant to acknowledge and validate what she has said. There is nothing manipulative or controllling in it. The only purpose is to say that I agree with her and then move forward with my work on continuing to change me regardless of the outcome.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...