This is the place to vent. Just know that I'm one of those that will poke you and say "is that really what you want?"
Personally, I like cheese with my whine (Cheeeze, Grommit). We all do it and if I came off as being critical, that was not my intent.
I do get it. In some ways it is really so much harder (or was for me) with them home. Here you are doing it all and ther he is, like a bump on a log (hopefully, not literally). The stress and if you're not careful, walking on eggshells or the opposite I don't give a fu*k.
I am not minimizing this at all. Give yourself credit for having the guts to step up here.
