I don't think I'd give it to her. But show her. Show your kids. Show yourself. Live up to everything you said in that letter, and you will be a better man than you were yesterday.
Exactly! Put the letter in a drawer and pull it out once a month, once or week or whenever you need to remind yourself why you are working so hard to be better person. Pull it out in a year to see how far you have come. This is a historical document not a blueprint.
BTW...you don't make you self stronger by beating yourself up. You are a good person, flawed like everyone else, but a good person.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09