In a stage with no name...I think.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Hi Gina,

Is there still a PA going on with him?

You have time on your side.

You have time on your side to show him just how cool you are and how great your relationship can be.

Don't you?

However, if every day, he comes home and you guys mope around, because of this weight hanging over you...hell yeah...who wants that?

This isn't easy and it isn't for whimps, but you have a great chance to show him how worth it you are.

Fake it till you make it.

You're right though...I wouldn't say you're in piecing. That's more like when both of you are working toward rebuilding. That doesn't mean you shouldn't post here though.

You are going to get alot of differing advice, from tough love to doormat, it is up to you to determine what is right for you, and bear in mind that every poster has a story as to why they post the way they do. : )

LRT? I don't think so...

I think GAL and Positive attitude around him...enjoy the moments with him...

However if PA still exists...that might need to be changed.