Lan -

I wonder if an excesss amount of hormones in your W are causing her to be so moody at times. Maybe the hysterectomy could be a good thing. My XW had the hysterectomy last year, but since I am not around her anymore, I cant confirm whether it has reduced her "bitchyness", but she sure seems nice everytime when she talks with me.

Where do you see your marriage heading? Do you envision a point where you both regain intimacy?

Do you feel you are walking on eggshells a lot?

Is there anything you can change that might cause change in your W?

Remember, focus on Lan and D8.

BTW... My D7 has recently started taking tap lessons and she seems to like it a lot.