I had a chuckle reading your latest post - The "bad guy" label - Same label my H is trying desperately to avoid at all costs. He didn't want to appear the bad guy to the OW when he found out she was leaving her H and child to move here that he actually packed up and set up an apartment to cover his lying ass - He never thought she would move here so instead of looking like a bad guy to her, he bailed on us
All along he had told her we were seperated, not seeing one another etc...The night before he left he looked me right in the eye and told me he wasn't going anywhere, would never move without telling me, he loved me and the boys etc...Dark days for me my friend and I just don't want you to get slapped like that.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
