I would never sleep with a guy if I wasn't sure he was someone I wanted to spend a long, long time with.
Hmmm maybe you waited 2 years then because you were 16(?) and innocent and sex was kind of...forbidden?
Between adults things are different Bbj. Of course sleeping around for fun isnt your thing but I have this gut feeling, you will see, time is a relevant thing. And heck yes!! Women can have sex without expecting a marriage proposal to go with it... I think. Basic Rule: dont do anything you will not feel good about the next morning. Even if that is a kiss. K