I want my WAW back!

[Serenity13]

Sorry however I agree with Puppy as well...The comment she made -

not having sex is the main cause of spouses to cheat and seek affection elsewhere.

Screamed red flags at me and again just my opinion...

She felt uncomfortable when her friend's husbands invited me to go to Vegas.

This bugs me the most for some reason - Why would she be uncomfortable with you going with mutual friends unless there is something there to hide?

Don't stick your head in the sand and "hope" she isn't cheating - For your own peace of mind, make sure...There are ways to go about it secretly and she never has to know...

It wasn't that long ago when I "thought" something was going on however I just couldn't figure it out, then I got crafty

Granted what I found out wasn't anywhere near what I wanted it to be however the guessing game had ended and I will admit I felt better knowing as opposed to wondering.

This is hard to do since we've separated. She's divided some of our assets like our bank accounts, asked for child support, and already arranged when I have my son. She is very closed to any attempt at reconciling. Any advice in how to crack that door just a little?

My H and I are seperated as well and I am just now starting to "live" again...

I do things my way now and I push forward to becoming a better woman everyday...

He is also closed at reconciling at this time and I am ok with that for now...

This is the time to use on you...

Don't make this about her/your marriage/opening the door - Use this time to make a better Sam - One she would kick herself for leaving later on down the line.