If you haven't figured it out yet...the people here are here to support you no matter what happens to your marriage.
Do no think that just because you are getting a divorce you should stop posting here. Divorce Busting is just a title, and as long as you are arbitrarily advising people to 'get out' of a marriage your insights can and will help others.
Your call, to stay or leave...you're in control. Funny huh? Almost like a little lesson there.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK